Men are from Mars, Women are from Earth and are tired of the bullshit.

David Horsey, LA Times, 2012

This article is an excerpt from “A Deviant’s Guide to Sexual Health” by Demitri Wylde.

“It seems today that all you see is violence in movies and sex on TV…” so says Peter and Lois while…


Or — “How an evening in turned into a late night scatalogical adventure.”

A true #HookupHorrorStory doesn’t always have to involve another person, sometimes, the horror is entirely self-inflicted.

Let me explain —

I recently have taken a liking to a certain psychedelic experience, one that is fungal in nature…


Or — “How Sex Turned into Violence Which Turned into Spending a Night in a Seattle Jail.”

Relationships are a microcosm of life: there’s some good stuff, some bad stuff, pretty stuff, and there’s definitely some ugly there too. Loving someone has a funny way of captivating us, so much…


Teaser for my new chapbook, now available on Amazon.com. E-book available on 6/18.

Cover art designed by Ryan Sterling, visit http://spiritcraeft.com for more artwork and prints.

As a born writer, your life purpose is to publish a book. The road to publishing is never easy. You get used to publishers telling you no, doors slammed in your face, and dealing with the subsequent…


“My name is… No. My sign is… No. My number is… No. You need to let it go.” - Meghan Trainor

This article is an excerpt from “A Deviant’s Guide to Sexual Health” by Demitri Wylde.

Let me start this section off with this disclaimer: there is no rulebook to life, no human resource manual, no downloadable ‘how to’ guide, not even a Reader’s Digest. As good of a boy scout…


Or — “How A New Career Choice Turned Into Something I Later Regretted.”

There was a time in my life that I was feeling extremely down on myself. I really didn’t think I was worth much in terms of my artistry, my finances, or my relationships. I was broke, hated…


Or — “How one late night phone call turned into the world’s most awkward party.”

We can put up with a lot when we really like someone. Major issues become minuscule in the face of an intense infatuation and a little TLC. It’s totally fine, until it isn’t.

I used…


Or — “How to get dumped, find a new man, and also ruin a perfectly good pair of white shorts.”

Awkwardness and sex go hand in hand. It’s like popcorn and movies, you can’t really have one without the other. Your first time is certainly no exception, either. How many…


Dale Zarlee, 35, in front of the George Floyd mural at the intersection of 38th St. and Chicago Ave. in Minneapolis Saturday, May 30 2020. Fair Use via TwinCities.com.

Everywhere I go, I have a habit of wandering around and seeking out all the street art in the area. I’ll find it, photograph it, and later I’ll blog about it. It’s something I’ve always done and I enjoy it. I find that a city’s artwork tells the most personal…


When stimulants become a detriment, and the art of surrender.

Photo used courtesy of Pexels.com.

Drugs, alcohol, caffeine, food, and sex — what do they have in common? Other than the fact that they are all really fun to do, within that fun lies the very problem. …

Demitri Wylde

Author, blogger, podcaster, and sexual deviant. Connoisseur of all things art, sex, science, spirituality. linktr.ee/demitriwylde

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