7 Habits To Having Better Sex, Now

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1. Talk

“In a time where real connection is replaced with digital approximations, there’s just something to be said about having a good old conversation about the weather.”

2. Establish Boundaries

“Pain = Pleasure, and understanding what hurts is good for the body as well as the soul.”

3. Be Romantic

“There’s nothing wrong with slowing down and creating a little bit of magic before you share your bodies with one another.”

4. Take It Slow

“Some of the best sex I’ve ever had didn’t even involve any penetration.”

5. Be Vulnerable

“Navigating any relationship is hard without having to worry about boundaries, feelings, personal baggage, or past traumas…”

6. Explore

“Having the freedom to sexually explore safely while simultaneously understanding personal wants and needs (I.E. boundaries) leads to more fruitful, exciting, and adventurous romps in the hay.”

7. Be spontaneous

“You’ll always remember that one time you had sex with your partner alone in the woods during a hike.”



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Demitri Wylde

Demitri Wylde

Author, blogger, podcaster, and sexual deviant. Connoisseur of all things art, sex, science, spirituality. linktr.ee/demitriwylde